In May, I participated in the commencement ceremony at the University of Wisconsin-Stout, receiving my Master’s of Science in Career & Technical Education. By chance, I was seated in the front row. As I watched the Bachelor’s candidates traipse past me on the way to the stage to receive their degrees, I noticed how many of them were wearing sneakers and even rubber flipflops. Some of the men had bare calves showing between too-short gowns and their sneakers—I assumed they were wearing shorts rather than actually being flashers in gowns rather than raincoats. These people were entering their next stage of life as college-educated adults with careers and had no idea that their first action as a graduate screamed, “I’m a kid and totally clueless as to how I should act in the realm of adults.” Conversely, the young men and women who were appropriately shod for a formal ceremony were presenting themselves as adults ready for professional positions.
For this week's assignment, describe a recent (within the last month or so) occurrence when you noticed someone over age 17 whose nonverbal clues were sending out the message “I am a clueless kid even though I’m legally an adult.” Then, describe another recent occurrence when someone was appropriately dressed for the environment in which you saw them.